25-year-old woman won't stop stealing her roommate's prescription shampoo: 'She got defensive and said I was being dramatic and acting like a “weirdo hoarder.”'

It shouldn't be very difficult to be a good roommate. It takes good communication, respecting each other's boundaries, and pulling your weight with rent and other bills, among other things. Roommates often share things like cookware, utensils, appliances, and toilet paper, but it's important to have a mutual agreement on this in the first place. 

My roommate and I, for instance, often share food, but we agree that if I finish the milk she bought, I buy the next gallon, and vice versa. Then, some things belong solely to me or her, and we agree to follow those boundaries. It's all about finding a balance while respecting each other's belongings. You never want to be the roommate who steals food or, in this story, the roommate who steals expensive soaps. 

Here, we have two young women who live in a small apartment together. One of them decides to throw out her own shampoo and conditioner to "declutter" and adopt a more minimalistic lifestyle. She says she doesn't want to buy more unless she has to. To her, this suddenly means she has free rein to use her roommate's prescription hair care products, which are quite expensive. 

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  • When politely confronted, things do not go well. The shampoo thief could simply apologize and buy her own shampoo and conditioner, but instead, she can't take responsibility for her actions and turns the blame around on her roommate. Don't ask me why she threw out her hair products if they weren't empty yet -- it's beyond me. 

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    AITAH for not letting my roommate use my shampoo after she dumped hers to "save space"?

    I'm 24F and I live with a roommate, Ellie (25F), in a small apartment. We get along well most of the time, though we're not super close. More like polite
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    not super close. More like polite cohabitants. We each have our own shelves in the bathroom, and we both use pretty different stuff. I'm really picky with hair care
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    I'm really picky with hair care because I've struggled with scalp issues, so I use a specific (and kind of pricey) shampoo and conditioner combo that I buy online.
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    Last month, Ellie told me she was "decluttering" and tossed out a bunch of stuff, including her shampoo and conditioner. She said she was going minimalist
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    shampoo and conditioner. She said she was going minimalist and didn't want to rebuy anything unless she absolutely needed it. just said "oh, cool" and didn't think much of it.
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    But since then, I noticed my products were running out way faster. Like half a bottle gone in a week. I put a little marker line with a Sharpie just to be sure, and yep. She was using it.
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    So I asked her about it. I didn't accuse her or anything, just said, "Hey, I've noticed my shampoo's going really fast, are you using it?" She said yeah, but acted like it wasn't a big deal. Said since we
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    wasn't a big deal. Said since we live together it "made more sense to share basics like that." I told her I'd prefer she didn't because it's expensive and prescribed for a specific skin issue I have. She got quiet and said "okay."
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    Two days later, I found it in her shower caddy again.
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    I moved my products into my bedroom and told her I didn't feel comfortable keeping them in the shared space anymore. She got defensive and said I was being dramatic and acting like a "weirdo hoarder."
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    Now she's barely speaking to me unless it's to roll her eyes or make passive comments. One of her friends came over last night and I swear I heard her say I'm "obsessed with controlling things."
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    All I want is for her to respect a boundary. It's not even about the money anymore. It's just the principle.
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    AITAH for not wanting to share my shampoo?
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    juliainfinland "Minimalist" = "I'm spending as little money as possible, and screw everybody else".
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    Ok_Stable7501 She's decluttering your your wallet. NTA
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    Imaolol04 6h ago NTA. It's your stuff, it's for a medical issue, and she crossed a boundary after you clearly told her not to. Her reaction just proves she doesn't respect you. You did the right thing.
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    BoxDesu I'd let that one run out then keep the empty bottle in the shower. And keep the replacement you buy separate. See if she ever replaces itm if she asks tell her you've gone minimalistic too and are trying a water only shower
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    max-in-the-house NTA I'd be a weirdo hoarder too!
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    knikkifire NTA. Even if itnwasnt prescription, she had no intention of buying more. She was expecting you to supply her. I bet she is going to be the same about other things, too (food, utilities, etc)
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    Designthing I had a roommate who regularly stole my tampons.
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